Archive for April, 2009

What about Regis?

Thursday, April 30th, 2009

Regis is on Dave tonight. That’s the extent of Regis in this post.

So, apparently I’m in trouble for this blog with someone who supposedly stopped reading the blog (one guess who it is). I went back and looked and really don’t have any problem with anything I wrote. But I got an upset voicemail and a quick talking to before band practice tonight. Whatever. For the record, I am told that nobody was distant the other night, so please ignore my thinking out loud.

As for other issues, she is blown away by everything. So there you go.

Practice was great. We all had fun and the musical chemistry is tremendous. The new songs are sounding good. I can’t wait for our next show on June 9.

I’m a complication!

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

Branden played solo at the Bazaar Cafe last night and snuck another partial cover of one of my songs in. The Bazaar Cafe has a strict no-covers policy and this is the second time he got around it like that. Always fun. This time he put a verse of Christian Scientist in there. Pretty cool.

The wanker and KJ were there as well as a couple of the kids’ classmates. The show was very good. I told Branden that I was going to start a Branden Kolarik cover band. He said he wants to be in it.

The weird one was there, too, in a distant mood. I walked home after the show while they all went out.

I came home and wrote a song about the stuff - the first one that I thought was decent. I can’t use it in Pet the Bunny but whenever I get out and start playing solo gigs, I’ll use it then.

The band may not be long for the world, which really bums me out. In some ways, I may be fighting to hold on to it to the detriment of being able to be honest about stuff and trying to force her to either work things out or for me to walk away. I love the band, however, including playing with her. Things are so unhealthy between us, though, that this is probably the wrong way to go about things. On the other hand, I also think I should be laying low until the summer because I don’t want to be further distraction to her schooling. There’s another issue that I can’t really write about … but not talking about it is playing into her hands. She’s basically playing the same game she played on me and I’m doing my best not to call her on it in a way that causes the band to break up.

I’m in a state of confusion.

Mom comes to town

Tuesday, April 28th, 2009

Mom came up for the weekend and we went to see State of Play on Monday before I took her to the airport. State of Play is a journalistic thriller with Russell Crowe and Ben Affleck. They throw a silly twist in at the end just to fuck with you, but it’s basically pretty good. Crowe is the reporter and Affleck is a congressman. One of Affleck’s aides is killed along with some other people and there’s a Halliburton-type company that Affleck is investigating.

We went to the track on Saturday. I only cashed one ticket but it was big enough that I only lost $26. I’m going back this week for the Derby with Gary.

Branden is playing solo tonight at the Bazaar Cafe, so that will be fun.

I’m doing laundry right now (I never do it this early) and then need to work Baywoof followed by a baseball game. Boring stuff but boring is OK right now.

Don’t fuck with the Jesus!

Sunday, April 26th, 2009